This is something you should talk to your W about as well. It's a serious matter and spanking very rarely results in well mannered children - only bullies.
Bullies or people with "rage" issues:)
Me-35 Com law-28 S-3 T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu 1st bu- 2/2012 Rec-4/2013 2nd bu-10/2013 IC-2 yrs(anger issues) MC- 5 mnths-fail OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14 New OM ~10/4/14