It's Not Over 'Till It's Over

[Fight4MyWife]

I would be very interested to hear anybody's opinion on making your spouse aware of your intentions to become the best person you can be, because it is the right thing to do, regardless of what happens to your relationship.

In my view I don't see that this goes against any of the Divorce Busting principles. It isn't pleading or needy and actually draws their attention to the fact that any changes you are making are not manipulative.

I would be interested to know other peoples views on this.

I have made a huge mistake!!!

After re-reading some sections of Divorce Remedy I have changed my view on this now and believe that it would be a mistake to do this.

After over a month of being very disciplined and having only limited contact with my wife we have now begun discussing issues regarding finances, the home etc.

After our telephone converstion the other day I had lots of emotions and had some thoughts I felt I wanted to get off my chest. I composed an email that was along the lines of letting her know of my intention to become a better person regardless of our relationship.

After reading it a few times and sleeping on it I decided not to send it. However for some stupid reason today, when I was actually feeling stronger, I re-read it and ended up sending it to her.

I wish I hadn't and really regretting this now. I have kind of shown my hand.