When I look at him know, it is hard for me to even remember all the crap that he pulled the last two years.
I have hope that if he has made these changes with respect to the himself, the kids and the family, there is still a chance that his stance on me will change. I know that it could take a really long time (if ever) because he has a ton of anger and resentment built up, but I am willing to give him space and time.
Well, everyone is different and on his/her own timeline for such things, but I submit that if you are able to see him as a totally different person in just a few short months, that gives reason he can, at some point, do the same with respect to you.
It sounds like your H is making good progress . . . fingers crossed it continues!
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14