That's a vague statement. Disrespectful behavior is different for everyone. What one person considers disrspectful, another might not.
"Mind reading also comes to mind."
Again, that's a little vague and honestly all couples are guilty of this to a certain extent.
Maybe be a little more specific.
"Getting angry because I ask about my son bothers me. But getting angry to defend my son against a wrongful act(may not be black and white) towards him is fine by me."
Again, I don't understand what you mean here. Do you mean she gets mad when you ask about your son? How and what about do you ask her? Sometimes your tone has alot to do with how someone reacts to you. Plus you can't base things on her current emotional state. Was this something that always happened?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.