Ok so in that context, are there other behaviors that bother you so much?
I'm not a black and white thinker;) there's a time and place for everything.
Disrespectful behavior comes to mind. Mind reading also comes to mind. There are probably more but it does depend on the context. Ie. anger... Getting angry because I ask about my son bothers me. But getting angry to defend my son against a wrongful act(may not be black and white) towards him is fine by me.
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