Uhh.. H keeps trying to push my boundaries. He is watching the kids at my house tonight. It is his normal night. Our son is sick so they are just hanging out at home. I ran home to get my stuff for yoga. H asked if he could watch a show on DVR in my room. I told him he could watch tonight but that he needs to set it up on another TV for next time (my boundary was that I need the master bedroom to be mine). H got annoyed and said "only tonight. Nevermind. I will just stay downstairs with the boys and go back down after I put them to sleep. " Normally I would try to talk to him to make things "better" but I didn't. I just let it go and said "have fun. I will be back after yoga."

I am respecting h and giving him space. Interesting that he is having a hard time doing the same.