What now?
XW is in a new relationship and everyone is forced to accept it.
I did not treat her the right way and as a result she found another that treats her way better than I ever did.

Sometimes I question whether she's ever in a fog as we termed it here. This new love is very real to her and she did mention that she will enter into a relationship with OM after the divorce. She said that she doesn't love me anymore in the last heart to heart talk before I moved away. Everything has come to frutation.
I don't think 'believe in nothing what I hear, half in what I see' even applies here.

What do I do now?
Is there even any hope in this?
Do couples even reconcile in such cases?


M35 XW34
D5 D4
M 6years T 10years
Bomb 5/2013
Joint Petition signed 6/2013
Moved out end of 8/2013
Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013
D finalized in 3 months - no news yet