El tigre! I so needed to read that right now as I posted almost the exact same thing as Ang just did!!!

'be a willing and active participant'<---yes.

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.