I did slap their shoulders and legs when they misbehave. XW is the one who canes them. It is very rare for us to punish them physically. For me it is even rarer.
D4 is out of control at times. She will defy anyone, almost like XW. This is what i'm worried about. Their line of thought is to allow her to continue to behave this way and wait till they are older to explains things to her while hoping she will outgrow her behaviour.
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet