I would be very interested to hear anybody's opinion on making your spouse aware of your intentions to become the best person you can be, because it is the right thing to do, regardless of what happens to your relationship.
In my view I don't see that this goes against any of the Divorce Busting principles. It isn't pleading or needy and actually draws their attention to the fact that any changes you are making are not manipulative.
I would be interested to know other peoples views on this.
Don't say a word about it. She doesn't care about intent, she cares about results.
Consistent action over time is what will convince her of your changes.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
