Originally Posted By: juliegayle

That said, I have been listening to all the complaints he has made about ne and marriage. While I do not accept the 100% blame he is laying on me much of what he said is valid. This is my starting point in making nyself a better person.


The percentage of blame is completely irrelevant. Look at the things he complained about . . . figure out which ones are honestly true. (Being mad that you accused him of an A when he is actually having one is not one of them.) Now of those, figure out which of them you want to change about you. And get to work! smile


me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14