That said, I have been listening to all the complaints he has made about ne and marriage. While I do not accept the 100% blame he is laying on me much of what he said is valid. This is my starting point in making nyself a better person.
The percentage of blame is completely irrelevant. Look at the things he complained about . . . figure out which ones are honestly true. (Being mad that you accused him of an A when he is actually having one is not one of them.) Now of those, figure out which of them you want to change about you. And get to work!
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14