I would be very interested to hear anybody's opinion on making your spouse aware of your intentions to become the best person you can be, because it is the right thing to do, regardless of what happens to your relationship.

In my view I don't see that this goes against any of the Divorce Busting principles. It isn't pleading or needy and actually draws their attention to the fact that any changes you are making are not manipulative.

I would be interested to know other peoples views on this.


Me: 34, Wife: 34
Son: 2
Married: 8, Together: 14
Wife moved out 8/25/2013
Divorce papers received 01/10/2014