MLC at age 32?

[lostinpgh]

I guess the 2x4's need to come out as I went and contacted him on Monday!
I called him and we talked for over 2 hours. The day after that I talked with him online for a few hours too.
He's still saying all the same things, listing the reasons why he feels the way he feels. He kept saying the same exact things over and over and would say things like "don't you see?" "Don't you understand?" I would reply that yes, I do understand and yes, I do see.
He said that he has absolutely nobody to talk to or confide in and the only person he can talk to is his therapist.
He's now viewing his parents as bad guys too. When he went to visit them, they just told him to squash his feelings and go back to being with me. He didn't want to hear that at all. He keeps saying "nobody ever listens to me"
I'm trying my hardest to be there to listen to him, even though what he's saying is that he has been unhappy with me for some time and here's why.
Even though its hard for me to hear these things, I am trying to be supportive of him like a friend would. It makes me feel very sad that he doesn't feel like he has anyone he can talk to. He said his parents are judgemental and manipulative.
He told me that his mom barraged him with a bunch of texts trying to change the way he feels and then when he didn't reply she just finally said "well, you're on your own then".

Another issue I'm coming across now... I talked a few times with his parents and they are convinced that the other girl I mentioned in my original post is the reason for all of this. They feel like he's being sneaky so he can go around and see her and keep me in the dark and that makes them angry. They went as far as to tell one of my H's friends what they thought he was doing (they didn't know about our situation). This scares me because now they're basically on a witchhunt against him.

This guy I talk to on a very rare basis is definitely not someone I know.