Yes, I explained this to her and she said she couldn't wait until January and that she wanted me to move out of the house. When I refused she got angry and threatened court action instead.
I was under the impression that we were going to mediation to discuss our finances, the fact she wants me to move out of the house was a surprise to me. The last I knew she was looking for somewhere else to live (she is living at her parents now).
Originally Posted By: jp787
I don’t think I would postpone to call her bluff, but stand my ground for valid reasons that are known to all.
When I said "call her bluff" I meant just not be pressured into doing it sooner than is convenient just because of the threat of course action.
However I can't help thinking that if she did initiate court action I might come out worse off than mediation and therefore might regret not jumping at the opportunity of mediation when I had the chance. Standing my ground, even for valid reasons, could be a risk.
Me: 34, Wife: 34 Son: 2 Married: 8, Together: 14 Wife moved out 8/25/2013 Divorce papers received 01/10/2014