wife hardens heart-6

[planet]

This evening FIL mediated matters between us. He's surprisingly calm and understanding. We agreed on several things.

We agreed that this marriage is over.

We agreed that she's in another relationship. FIL was peeved when he found out but I stopped him from continuing. Said that I'm not interested to know.

He also said that it's natural when one woman is sad, it's easy to fall in love with another man. I guess her family accepts this man now.

FIL and MIL saw how XW wrings any thing I have to say. At least they know I'm not the real brat here. She blames my family again for ill treating her. Still harbors plenty of resentment.

I told them I wanted XW to share some information regarding the kids with me.

FIL said I can't punish D4 the way I did earlier. XW did want to use this punishment in the past but she came out with a pretty good excuse this time. FIL said he did not punish his kids and they turn out alright. I beg to completely differ and his way is the exactly the reason why I need to discipline them.

She decided to sent the girls to the art class now without informing me. She said that she doesn't want other kids to know we are divorced. I find that statement strange. I think it's because OM was there to accompany her. Imagined that, OM becomes Mr.Planet because my Ds carries my name. Totally mind reading but nevertheless funny.