The original assessment meeting was scheduled for yesterday but I cancelled due to simply not having time to get all the financial records together in the short time they gave me.
I have now decided that I would actually prefer to put the mediation off until January as it would be costly for me to close my business to attend in the run up to Christmas. My business really slows down in January.
However, my wife has said she is not willing to wait until January and threatened court action.
Did you share the reasoning with your W?
I guess I would suggest being honest with her about your reasoning and then state that is what you need. I don’t think I would postpone to call her bluff, but stand my ground for valid reasons that are known to all.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
