T, I have been following your thread for a bit, but didn't have anything useful to add. Just wanted to let you know, from someone who is well behind you in this process, that you have some pretty great insight and wow, you are strong!! Good for you for seeing things as they are and your W as she is, and not trying to jump back in out of desperation. Your W sounds pretty conflicted, and yes, she does have a lot of work to do on herself. It sure doesn't seem like she is ready to let you go. I will be interested to see what she does/thinks if you decide to move forward with D.
Thanks Melissag,
Wierd thing is I don't feel strong, I just feel like me.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14