Cat and AJ summed the other question up really well...

So...


Originally Posted By: Takevowsserious

There has been a lot of discussion around here recently concerning trust and forgiveness. I can sum up my stance as this -

Forgiveness is given. Trust is earned. Period.

You can forgive someone who may not "deserve" it or even care. You can forgive someone, and they don't even know it.

It's a choice you make for you. It is something that doesn't change. Once you decide to forgive someone, you move forward past the wrong.




Well...THAT hit an exposed nerve huh ??

Me thinks you have a skewed vision of forgiveness...

The BEST line I have read about forgiveness...???

... Not forgiving someone, is like setting yourself on fire, in hopes that the smoke gets into their eyes....

Why would you say, that we(as people) should learn forgiveness ???