Still Have Hope.....

[Tinman]

Well had hoped a little for feed back or questions but I will just journal for now...

Day of the divorce. We had both agreed on everything and were just doing a default decree but because a box on the form did not get checked the judge required my W to come in for a short hearing. She told me about it and said I did not need to be there. So the day was coming and I thought I would show up so she did not have to go through it alone. After much thought the day before I decided it was best if I did not show up and send her a card. The card was basically thanking her for the last three years and the memories that we created. Did not ask her to come back but let her know I cared.
She text me that afternoon and said that the divorce was final and she would send me a copy of the decree. About two hours later I received an email from match.com with my latest matches. Yep you guessed it. There she was a 98% match for me. I was sad to know that she had joined match but at the same time maybe if she sees a few people she will start to miss what we had. I forwarded the email to her and said what perfect timing Match had by matching us 2 hours after divorce was final. She responded and said that she joined out of curiosity and that she was not interested in meeting anyone that dating was more my thing. I did not respond as I did not start dating until I found out that she had.
I guess it is time to pull back and see if she initiates any contact. Really miss her and her boys!