I can't wait for that day, rH! I've told her before that it's not going to be easy for her to help pay the mortgage and start over too. She continues to live in a fantasy when it comes to what a D actually means. Our discussions will be like a business transaction. I have to do what's best for my boys. That's all that matters.
Your story gives me hope and encouragement. Always has. I have often thought she feels "not good enough" to be here and she is acting out to make that become a reality. It's not true though and I'm doing my best to love her unconditionally.
M - 42 W- 37 S's - 9,6 M-12 T-14 FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011 ILYBNILWY - march '12 FIL - died jan '13 W Moved out week later