One giant leap forward! - Part 9

[T1000]

This is our contact for the last few days:

Me: I've got Friday 20th off.
W: So would you like me to bring them Thursday 19th?
Me: Yes please.
W: What time will you want them there?
Me: I'm gonna try and finish for 15:00.
W: Ok. Really don't want to be driving back home in the dark. Earlier the better otherwise I'll have to stay over.
Me: Hopefully I can finish earlier. I will know better nearer the time.
W: Ok. I'll get a double onsie just in case I have to stay just to ease the awkwardness. (sent a pic she took off her laptop with her phone)

An hour later...

W: Skype
Me: Can't today. Thanks anyway.
W: Do try and make an effort to skype them this week.
Me: Tomorrow at 5:30?
W: Hopefully

3 hours later...

W: Can I confirm what dates in December you have kids?
Me: Every weekend except the 1st. Plus the 20th and the 30th. You said you wanted them for a weekend in December? Are you wanting them the 14th-15th?
W: Yes I'll have them that weekend.

5 mins later...

W: Can you bring me the Christmas decorations??
Don't worry...I won't make you take them back this time.
Me: I can bring you some. I've valeted my car I'm not getting it [censored] up with glitter and tinsel. If it will fit in my boot I will bring it. I wasn't going to take them back
W: Right well keep the black tree. Suits that house better. Just bring me all the other stuff. Stop being a moody arse.

This morning...

W: I'll be claiming my slary??? Lol (sent me some text photographed out of an article about stay at home Moms)



I'm not sure where I stand with her maybe wanting to stay that night. I don't want her there but not sure what the law is with it still be part hers.
Tbh I would prefer her not to but I also don't care. If she wants to sleep on the sofa thats up to her it's not going to change what I plan to do.

She keeps making jokes about the onesie and stuff. I'm not getting involved, if she thinks she can placate me by being funny she is wrong.

I answer if it's a serious question, if it's not I ignore. I'm not trying to teach her anything, I just don't want to know.

She thinks I'm being moody and in a way it can be seen that way. I'm being polite when I should and straight to the point when I think it's needed.

I remember reading someone elses thread on here a long time ago and he said that he was ready for divorce and previously although I could have done it I was fearful of what it meant and that I have never felt ready and not sure if I ever would.
What a difference a couple of months make.
I'm ready.