I'm not sure I have felt really loved by W in a lot of years. Never told me she was proud of my work, never told me I was attractive, never initiated ML or any intimacy at all, can't tell you the last time she said ILY, very seldom thanks me for anything around the house, etc.
I have spent the last 10 years poured into my work and receiving most of those things there. No ML, of course. I've been completely faithful. I guess all if us need to feel worth something and appreciated.
Both 40 T-22 M-18 S13 S11
Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13 EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13 EA #2-9/13/13