now that you have returned to EE's workshop, do you see how unhelpful your first reaction would have been?
Good...so, now what's your plan for the holiday? Have you offered your d the chance to come WITH a friend? That way she's not choosing between parents,
but between having fun with her dad/brother and friend, AND Not doing so. If I were your w, I'd want my d to go... Then again, I myself would want to go so it's hard to figure out what your w wants, except out...
YOU sound great post workshop. Do NOT backslide or believe your w's views of you are based on 'real data". What you show her is a part of you that you CAN change.
Too many people have met you in real life, and all found you warm and personable. So no more lonely man years, "INSIDE" your own family!
When I read how you react to your w, I realize it's not healthy for YOU to be there. I mean, truly, I don't get it. Is she a huge strong abusive woman? What is it that makes you give her all your power?
What's it going to take for you to take it all back?
Well I know what's healthy/happy, and what's NOT.
When I hear of you around your w, I see reactions and proposals that are NOT happy or healthy.
So...there's that.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
