I don't know though: I feel very dry, disconnected, unmotivated. I still like being around her, and enjoy our time together, but its like hanging out with my grandma. Maybe this is normal, and I should ask the Piecing folks, but is it possible to love someone, but lose that "connection"?
Of course, that's how must of us end up here, because we lost the connection! Why not plan things to make things more lively and less like hanging out with good ole gram. If you sit around and wait for the connection to happen, it isn't going to - you two have to work at creating it again. It gets better, much better for some of us and hopefully for most.
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I think you should consider IC in addition to MC to help you sort out your feelings, and if you decide you really do love her, the MC will help you get back on track and help you learn to forgive, and for both of you to love each other.
Love is a choice. We all know that the excitement fades with time and it is up to us to work at it to keep our Ms together or we end up on DB.com trying to get them back. I think NTX is right on about a lot of things. I also think, if you choose to do this, you can do this.
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
