Giving in and rolling over isn't attractive. That said you can stand up for yourself and do it lovingly.

I would not move out, she left, she needs to figure out what she needs on her own, that is why you need to focus on you and not get in her way.

I would highly suggest IC if your not already. Your W sounds like she has many issues as well, but that is on her, she has to figure that out on her own.

If you haven't read some threads on here, it helps.


M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy