I am trying to GAL, detach & follow the principles of Divorce Busting/Divorce remedy.

My biggest problem right now is handling this situation regarding our family home.

I don't want to do things that are going to make the situation worse, cause a bigger disconnection and make reconciliation impossible when I could possibly handle it in a way that would have a positive impact on our relationship.

Some people are saying that moving out of the home so she can move in would show weakness & that she would lose respect for me, but you could also argue that she would probably be expecting me to resist so not resisting would actually be doing a 180.

The point is also that she might end up forcing me out in the end anyway, so resisting could cause more problems & still end up with the same result.


Me: 34, Wife: 34
Son: 2
Married: 8, Together: 14
Wife moved out 8/25/2013
Divorce papers received 01/10/2014