It's Not Over 'Till It's Over

[Fight4MyWife]

I think you need to back far away from her right now, from what you have said, this will be very hard for you.

It's difficult to back far away when I see her every 2 days to pick up/drop off my son and she is also now seeking discussions between us about our finances and marital home.

Take some time and look within yourself, I think there is a lot of anger and hurt in there...

There is certainly lots or anger and hurt in there. I feel angry that she is just giving up without trying when she promised me "for better or worse" and hurt that she can just go from a 14 year relationship to being so cold.

The hardest thing is how cold she is being about everything, her refusal to talk, she has just completely shut herself off.