Me 13 months on, affair finally confirmed.

[hotwheelsaust]

Thanks AS and TTD180. I do really know I have done all I could. I do know I couldn't have done anything different.
It just doesn't make it any easier at the moment.
As you said AS, the emotions are temporary at this stage. You are right, just a very big rollercoaster downhill this time.

As an added update: still haven't received my binding financial agreement that the solicitor advised would arrive two weeks ago. Therefore I and the wife cannot change any car titles over, nor can I take over the home loans or pay her out.
Again, I have decided to continue with my values (whether right or wrong in my sitch) and that is I will not initiate anything to do with the splitting of assets or the ending of our marriage. That will be on the W's plate to do.