Hey guys,
That's interesting - I didn't think of it as rage.

I jumped straight to mania.

A friend of mine said - what do you expect when he's had to lie to OW about why he's out? In other words, the Wed night caused great difficulty for him when he normally sees us on the night OW works late, and hence she doesn't know.

Anyway, the other thing I thought was that it's pretty typical of the peek out/back- to-replay pattern that's talked about.

All in all, it's been pretty useful in helping the kids and I detach from him.
The more we see of him acting like this, the less we long for the old days.
He is patently not right; no-where near.