She wants me to decide ASAP on my decision on our current house if I can qualify to buy it and take her name off the note and deed. If not she wants to set a trial date and let the court decide.
I know its tough but don't let her dictate what your options are. If you two are capable of having a productive discussion then you can do so and you can then take as much time as you need to make a decision that is best for you and your s.
If you can't discuss it then you can take as much time as you need to make a decision that is best for you and your s.
If she wants to threaten you w/ trial dates and even if she goes through with what's necessary to get a trial date, then take as much time as you need to make a decision that is best for you and your s.
I would recommend consulting with an attorney.
Originally Posted By: kenva
She said she had told our s that he would stay one week w me and one w her and she still wants to swap out on Wednesdays.
Why is she discussing these types of things with your s when nothing is established or certain yet? That is not in his best interest and I would let her know that until an agreement is in place, whether court ordered or not, to not discuss these things w/ s.
Of course she still may but just like her filing papers or threatening you or whatever the H else, you have no control over what she does so do your best to remain neutral.
Originally Posted By: kenva
She also tells me her parents are going to be out of town for thanksgiving , which is a lie, there not going anywhere, and that I can have our s all that day w my family. WOW, another kick in the mid section. I know I can't stop her. Anyone w any input ?
Be grateful that you get to spend Thanksgiving w/ your son. This will be my first year w/o them on that day.
