So now I don't ask anything. I understand this is taking the pressure off him. But. . Aren't I also opening the door for hin to develop a deeper connection with OW?
Ironically it's usually the opposite that does that. If you are constantly berating him for his affair and you get others to do the same (family, friends, pastor, etc.) then it drives him closer to OW and they feel like it's them against the world.
