New to the board, fairly newly LBS from MLC.

[tigerlily78]

I was still in bed when he came home to get ready for work. I gave him a pleasant "Good Morning" and he gave me one too. No other words exchanged.

Last night I asked if I would have time today to take clothes to the laundromat. He said it might depend on what was going on with work, but he would try to come home and work in the afternoon.

Well, 2:20 he finally calls me to ask if I did end up doing some laundry and how long it will take to do at the laundromat. H lets me know he went out for lunch and has to head back to work, won't be heading home until around 4. (Does he really have to head back to work, did he eat lunch with OW? Yes, I wonder these things, but I know better than to ask, at least for today)

I ask if he still plans to be here for dinner tonight. He says he will eat if dinner is ready, but he is leaving around 7pm. I say, ok. There is a LOOOOONG pause. I am listening to see if he has anything else to say. He finally says, "Ok, I just wanted to let you know. I will see you later."

He is one of those people who is rather slow and deliberate in their speech sometimes. It's hard for me to figure out at times
if he is done talking or just thinking. I am going to have to get more comfortable with the silence and just be patient.