Ok where to start. M41 W34 married for 7 years and together for 10 years. We have 5 children boys 7,8 and triplet girls who are 4. We were a very romantic and physical couple when single. Seven years later definite disconnect. I love my wife and felt we were the perfect couple but hind site shows me the feelings of neglect. Girls started preschool this fall and was the first freedom my wife has had in many years. Everyone refers to her as supermom including Facebook. Finally some attention from another man and all blew up. Feelings of neglect and entrapment all blamed on me and I feel awful because totally oblivious. To me on day we kiss and say I love you the next he hates me and wants out. She does not even want to try. Still in same home but has moved to another bedroom now. Many financial stresses took me out of character irritable and disconnected so I know some of the feelings are just. I have been slapped across the face and am awake and willing to change! Hate that I missed the signs and could have remedied with a little extra effort. Help I miss my wife!
