The apartment is about 20-30 minutes drive from the school; If the kids sleep there, they'll rush in the morning.

Also my older son does not want to go the apartment and he does not want his brother and dad sleep there either. So H told him that daddy will still come back home every day after work and stay there until they go to bed.

Last night was the first night H didn't sleep at home. This morning when the kids wake up and didn't see their daddy, both of them cried.

It is really hard to explain the situation to them. Right now H just told them daddy is busy at work so he cannot sleep at home. I don't know if this is a good excuse for kids, but I can feel this didn't convince my older son.

My older son also knew dad will be gone for two weeks during thanksgiving. H lied to him and said he will go buisness travel. But my son doesn't beleive him and is very disappointed and upset.


M 18 yrs
5 & 7 yrs old kids
H DB in 4/2013
H moved out in 11/2013