Well we have had some time apart lately. He has been reffing hockey a lot lately and I went away on a shopping trip. It was nice to have some space. He was pretty involved in my weekend which I was t expecting. I expected not to hear from him all weekend. So that was good. Once home he made a few comments about being happy he isn't reffing this weekend so we can have some time together and that he was trying to get errands done around the house before I got home so we can has husband an wife time. Always nice to hear. I feel like we are just in a lull. How do you get out of it? I want him to be excited about me. Maybe I'm thinking too much. I get nervous when it's a night we are both home cause I don't want him to feel "bored" with me. But 10 years in I hope this is a normal feeling....


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14