Mimi I agree, I think right now detaching is my best choice for finding peace, at least for now.
Kdogs-I have actually been getting out much more than I have ever before and have been exercising. I have found a new friend that likes to do outdoor activities, and he is also in the science field like myself which makes him great company. The only stresses I have aside from divorce is facing the inevitable fact I'm going broke without a job. I'm now trying to figure out where I'm going to live a month from now. I have been applying to jobs like crazy and no bites so far. All the research jobs seem to be concentrated in San Diego and San Francisco which I have no desire to move to until I finish my grad program. I've even applied to seasonal retail jobs that don't seem to want to hire me, as in LA you have 20 more people competing for the same job with more experience. As I've mentioned before, the whole financial situation is also depressing me. If I had control of that, I feel like I could control other aspects of my life, such as my happiness. :P
