The plot thickens. I successfully transferred out my share of the $ from our joint account. Of course, she doesn't deal with these sorts of things, she did it incorrectly and got our joint account locked out of the funds transfer feature. I got 4 emails saying the account is locked and to call to unlock it. I'm torn on whether to send them to her or not, or let her figure it out on her own in a few days when the money doesn't arrive. I don't want her thinking I did something to block it because I didn't.
Also, she told me she had transitioned everything that auto-pays to her own credit cards so I removed her as an authorized user on both of my credit cards that she was on. They are reported to my credit, and had $12k limits each, so I was really worried about a vindictive spending spree until now. *sigh of relief
I'm going to wait on sending her the emails from the bank, because really I don't owe her a whole lot of explanation, I had nothing to do with her sending it incorrectly. She can be a grown up and figure out like she would have to in a few weeks/months when the D is finalized.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14
