^ Agree^. Mine will make comments about our future together and then make another comment about how I will handle house on my own in the future (eye roll).
Sometimes they need something to focus upon. Something concrete. Sometimes I wonder if they think that since it has gone this far, there is no going back? Or if they think that the next step will bring the happiness or peace they have been searching for?
As LBS's, we all had to find our happiness inside of us and our peace. I understand how fleeting it is when tied to the external rather than the internal. That's what makes me empathetic to not only my H, but a lot of the WAS out there.
