We had the opposite effect. When we got back together, we couldn't control ourselves. We ML almost every night and went out at least 1-2 times a week on "dates". It was more passionate than when we first met in our 20s.

Our sitch was drug out for a year though, so maybe you weren't apart long enough.

Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012