Have a question. W wants to pick s up on Fridays after she gets off work at 2am, she wants to use her key and just walk in and get him.
Well that's up to you. My W still comes over and gets the kids ready on the weeks I have them, it allows me to go to work earlier. So it's a convenience to me, and as such I allow W to let herself into the house. If you decide you don't want W just walking in, you can set that as a boundary. But it may inconvenience you as you'll have to get up at 2am to let her in, unless you work something else out like having her pick him up in the morning.
