Ya know T, that's a feeling I've had often throughout this. I do suspect the same in this case that T-Bone has mentioned.
Tiger, I think sedatives and duct tape should be standard issue, but taken away when we're starting to date. Just want to make sure there are boundaries before they are needed (humor. Or humour if you're on the other side of the pond - can be a good thing and is a terrible thing to go without)
T-Bone, it is no fun and there are really three sets of feelings involved - yours, his, and the together yours/his. You have been given some good advice and some perspective gems. Please take care of yourself and look to the bright-side each morning. Life is good even when times are tougher than the others.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."