melissag,

I am not able to get D to school because of work. i have to bee at work by 7:30 which means i have to leave the house by around 6:45.

D doesnt start school untill around 7:30 so the times dont match up right now.

I got an email from my W this morning. She asked if she could stay tonight. I said "if thats what you need to do"

I have no expectations, like i said in my earlier post. I can tell she is exhuasted, and i know she misses her D. I know she doesn't want to stay becauase of me. I have no illusion of that.

I'm really just trying to figure out what kind of boundaries need to be set. Is it ok for her to stay at our house? or does that confuse things further. I don't want to push her away, but at the same time I want her to realize that she is the one who wanted separation.

Confused.


M28 W27
D3
M 2years
Bomb 9/23/2013
Separated 11/17/2013
EA/PA Confirmed 12/5/13

Expecting Compliance is Control
What would you do, if you weren't Afraid?