We all agree that transparency and openess is a requisite path to a successful reconciliation. How we arrive at that point is something that both partners must be in mutual agreement and are invested in the process. Is the LBS ready for it? Is the WAS ready for it? Especially if the WAS is a MLCer. More on that later.

My recent post was to probe and prod in a Socratic way. Whether it succeeded or not is immaterial. It is not necessary for Raine to answer these questions here. The purpose is to bring on some new awareness and unhearth some hidden thought patterns that affect the emotions. Hopefully we all can learn from this thanks to Raine's searingly honest posts.

What is our truth? Is it real?

No wonder Titanium Raine has achieved a black belt in this process!! grin