Pudmuddle and Heather -thanks for the vote of confidence.
I find it hard to post here sometimes - so many of you are going through such difficult times with your MLC'er, and it is hard for you to recognise if there is any improvement or change in them. But they are still in your lives.
Despite it only being 16 months since my BD, I have no hope left for a new relationship with my ex. He ran so fast and hard he married the OW.
So, all of you, even when they are horrible and spewing just remember you still have a connection, you can continue to stand and DB. And one day you may have the choice in continuing a relationship with you MLC'er.
