I met with my attorney today and layed out all the facts, family codes and documented proof. The two weeks I spent studying the law and collecting documents was worth it. She confirmed that I have a very strong case against xh and she will seek attorney's fees, sanctions and damages. In addition, the documents I have show that I should not be liable for a big part of xh's debt and maybe not any of it. Through his shenanigans he has eaten up any equity interest he may have in the house, destroyed his relationship with his kids, is ordered to pay me more than half of his salary and will likely owe me court-ordered fees and sanctions. He has lost everything for what? As for his gf, she may lose big too. If he can't pay me I can seek to have their house sold. Because of the way they hold title her share is not protected. Karma....
MLC or not, xh and his attorney knew what they were doing. They were deceitful and intentially did things that were intended to harm me. For anyone who thinks their WAS can get away with some of the things they are doing - they probably can't, but you are going to have to be proactive and help yourself. Do not assume that your attorney knows it all. I had to recite a very important code to mine today.