I feel for u. I'm in the same boat as u. We have been living in separate rooms for over 2 years w out 6 yr old son. At the beginning I went to stay at my parents house for 3 months to give her space. I then moved back. There is also an OM in our situation. Mine filed for divorce but I rejected it because we had not been living as a separated couple. That really tict her off. Oh we'll. exact words from her mother as well. I have gotten a life, lost weight,exercising, going out and enjoying my son. I pray every night she wakes up. I also pray for you.
M 43 W 35 S 6 BD 7-11 Served 5-2-13 Sep agree signed 5-12-14 Wife moves out pending refinance 5-14-14 Divorce hearing set May 2 Divorced May 2