Hi all. I'm new here.

[MrBond]

""I don't quite understand how you correlated my comment of her phone to my past anger issues. "

Because you are typing your story, you left out alot of details and so I can only go based on what you wrote. You typed... "During the relationship it pissed me off that she was always on her phone." and "Can somebody tell me not to ask about her damn phone. "

Just from reading that, it seemed like your anger issues resurfaced. You never explained that it was your "RAGE" issues that you supposedly corrected. You actually never mentioned rage issues before.

Anger is anger. It's how you deal with it that's important. Women have long memories. She'll say that she sees you changed but nonetheless it could have been the thing that planted a seed of doubt in her mind.

You can't keep posting here and get defensive when you haven't detailed your whole story.