sorry to hear you're having a bad time lately HWA Even though we prepare ourselves, we try to talk ourselves out of it and say to ourselves this is not really happening. When the time comes when it does come out, it is still devastating. It's like my MIL at the mo is preparing for the worse as her H is 97. She's not expecting him to live much longer, but she'll still be grieving when he's gone. I have a feeling that my H is in an affair, but I've yet to have this confirmed. I know if H ever tells me that then I know I'll be just as devastated. Especially if he tells me it's been going on for longer than the BD, which is what I'm thinking at the mo. Although I don't know how you must be feeling, I can only guess I can understand that it's a setback and it's no wonder that you're feeling like this. You will get through this, it will just take time! Stay strong and take care Look forwards not backwards
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Even though we prepare ourselves, we try to talk ourselves out of it and say to ourselves this is not really happening. When the time comes when it does come out, it is still devastating. It's like my MIL at the mo is preparing for the worse as her H is 97. She's not expecting him to live much longer, but she'll still be grieving when he's gone.
I can understand that it's a setback and it's no wonder that you're feeling like this. 