I really like your thread title.

You did the right thing not to leave the house.
She left you.....you should not have to leave your home because of it.
Stay strong, keep a postive mental attiutude.

me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope