Hanging on to the roller coaster

[tigerlily78]

Oh CC, that is really a tough deal. Give yourself some time and space to process, because you don't want to jump to conclusions... but yes, at some point H is going to have to level with you.

Maybe best for you to go through the script in your head about how that conversation will go down. What questions do you need to ask, what assurances can H give you really? Given the new circumstance what does HE plan to do (clearly this shakes up the status quo, right?) Be clear that you are not an idiot and the OW probably isn't either. If it IS his, it is going to be found out eventually, he does himself no favor by lying now, it will only hurt you more down the road if in fact the baby is his.